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You’re in the bathroom brushing your teeth, already three meetings ahead in your mind, when that familiar thought slips in: I should be further along by now. If that feeling has been circling you lately, this episode is for you. I break down why real growth is so easy to miss, why your brain is wired to overlook it, and what you can do this week to see the progress you’re actually making.
(00:26) — The 3 a.m. brain: why “I should be further along” keeps showing up
(01:00) — The real thesis: your scoreboard is broken
(01:08) — The bamboo story: years underground, then 90 feet in weeks
(03:08) — Why it’s biological: dopamine, cheap hits, and why scrolling feels “productive”
(04:00) — Meet Becky (the amygdala) and why she wants receipts
(05:07) — The gradient problem: why slow change goes undetected
(05:49) — The reframe: it’s your capacity that’s compounding, not your results (06:49) — A client story: same revenue, completely different woman
(07:45) — Where faith comes in: trusting God with what you can’t measure yet (08:24) — This week’s homework: the “I can’t believe you” letter
(11:00) — Alli’s recommendation: get your lab work done

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