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A voice in your head can sound wise: calm, reasonable, urging, “Don’t overcomplicate this.” For most of my life, it helped me go far.
But when making a decision about my future, I realized that voice echoed an earlier version of me. It didn’t know what I know now.
In this episode, I share lessons from a challenging season. My husband was sick. Two of my boys faced unsolved health issues. I was running a company and holding my family together. This episode focuses on how I found clarity in making a difficult business decision and why this lesson is vital for every high-performing woman.
This episode explores identity lag, overthinking, confirmation bias, and why getting out of your head helps you grow. Listen now to discover the mindset shift that transformed my journey.
(01:28) – Getting stuck when your thoughts aren’t helping
(03:16) – Identity lag: why your brain hands you your history when you ask about your future
(04:34) – Why high-performing women keep trying to do this alone
(05:16) – The necklace analogy: why someone outside your life can see the knot
(05:59) – What Alli’s weekly coaching session actually looks like
(06:39) – Why the seasons with outside thinking are always the best seasons
(07:58) – Three things to do this week
(09:03) – Why you need to schedule the thing you’ve been meaning to do for six months
(10:20) – One thing to do this week to interrupt the pattern
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